CHAPTER THREE  MORMON TRAILS  

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JUNE 5TH, 1969. Sue and I were married in the Cathoic Church in Mt. Vernon, IL, We had been dating since 1965. Our marriage celebrated 55 years on June 5th, 2025. Oh my God. You took her away from me. I will always love her.

 


In 1990, I received a performance award which included a trip to the Bahama Islands.  We stayed at the Paradise Island Hotel and Casino which was owned by Merv Griffin. Sue loved Casinos and spent her time playing the one armed bandits. Oh my God, I loved her so much.
 

In August of 2006, Glenda was ready to give Sue her first Grandson, Cody. She was so happy and proud of her daughter-in-law. I
 

Brenda Sue Heck,
affectionately known as Sue

Brenda Sue Heck, affectionately known as Sue to her friends and family, passed away peacefully on February 10, 2025. At 10:33 PM. She was at the age of 79, and lived in Castle Rock, Colorado where she suffered a stroke due to a blood clot in the brain in the morning on January 29th

Sue was born on June 10, 1945, in Mt. Vernon, Illinois. Her radiant spirit and unwavering kindness touched the lives of everyone she met.

Sue grew up in the warm and close-knit community of Mt. Vernon, Illinois, where she attended local schools and laid the foundation for a life characterized by love, generosity, and kindness. After completing her education, she embarked on a career that saw her happiest when her hands were busy. Sue's favorite work involved cleaning—there was no task too big or too small that she would not tackle with enthusiasm and dedication. She also enjoyed working as a demo food associate at Costco and Sam's Club, where her friendly demeanor made her a favorite among customers and colleagues alike.

However, the role that Sue cherished the most was that of a homemaker. She took immense pride in raising her two sons, Larry D Heck and Danny W Heck, instilling in them the values of hard work and compassion. Her husband, Larry E Heck, stood by her as a pillar of support throughout their life together, sharing moments of joy and challenge alike. Her family was the cornerstone of her life, including her beloved daughter-in-law Glenda, cherished grandsons Cody and Logan, and her caring sisters Sally (Boswell) Lisenby and Karen (Boswell) Lyday. Sue also held a special place in her heart for her brother, Constantine Fradelos.

Sue's interests were as unique and vibrant as her personality. She found joy and excitement in playing slot machines at the Black Hawk casinos and was an aficionado of scratch tickets. Her approach to gambling was a reflection of her approach to life—moderate and balanced. She never chased after significant wins, nor did she suffer substantial losses, always mindful of the simple pleasure found in the experience itself.

Those who knew Sue would describe her as the epitome of loving, generous, and kind. She had a way of making people feel valued and loved, and her presence was a source of comfort and happiness. As the famous poet Maya Angelou once said, "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." Sue embodied this sentiment, leaving behind a legacy of warm memories and loving moments that will continue to be cherished by all who were fortunate enough to have known her.

Sue's life was a testament to the power of love and the importance of family. She will be remembered for her gentle spirit, her unwavering commitment to her loved ones, and her ability to find joy in the simple things in life. Her memory will live on not only in the hearts of her family but also in the countless lives she touched with her kindness.

As we bid farewell to Brenda Sue Heck, we celebrate a life well-lived, full of love, laughter, and the grace of everyday moments. Her story does not end here, for she has left an indelible mark on this world, and her spirit will continue to inspire those who knew her to live with kindness and generosity. Sue's journey through life was a beautiful one, and though she may have departed from this earthly realm, the essence of who she was will forever be a part of the tapestry of our lives.

(The draft text of this obituary was generated using artificial intelligence technology)


In 2004, we attended the wedding of our younger son, Danny Wayne. He Married Glenda in May of 2004

 


Oh my God! Such a beautiful smile. Such a beautiful woman even on her 74th Birthday. She hated to have her picture taken.

Rest in peace honey!

 
   

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